From the Editor
By Victoria Cessna
Communication Director & Editor of The Good News

I love popcorn. It’s not a mild fondness—I really, really love popcorn—old fashioned, popped in oil (or bacon grease), butter-slathered popcorn. It’s an obsession shared by my brothers and sisters as it was the only staple snack to be found in our house—more dictated by the economy of having a large family than any nutritional obsession on my parents’ part.
        So it was indeed a great sacrifice to give up popcorn for Lent which we did as a family each and every year. It’s not easy to go without one’s favorite food in the sun-deprived frigid cold days of a Midwest winter. But boy did that first handful of popcorn on Easter taste better than ever.
        Such are the traditions I remember when I think of my childhood Lenten experience. How proud I was to accomplish my “giving up” goal—never wavering. As an adult I’m not so sure I can admit to such success but am always impressed by the resolve my own children and their friends have at this time as they forgo chocolate and video games without bending the rules or searching for that Lent loophole.
        I have to admit I miss that childhood fervor and sense of accomplishment. I want to go beyond my usual popcorn sacrifice and really connect to the season
        So this year I’m not going to “give up” anything. Instead I’ve decided to make a concerted effort to strengthen my dedicated prayer time each day for others’ intentions—not just my own [and by proclaiming this here I am more likely to be successful].
        The great Catholic priest and teacher Henri Nouwen said “The paradox of prayer is that it asks for a serious effort while it can only be received as a gift. We cannot plan, organize or manipulate God; but without a careful discipline, we cannot receive him either.”


Growing Awareness
By Mary Jane Doerr
Director of Diocese of Kalamazoo
Safe Environment Program

 Child Sexual Abuse is one of those topics that everyone thinks they have all the facts on based on their own preconceived notions and upbringing (I admit I was part of that group). In reality what many believe to be facts are really myths and misconceptions. One such misconception is this one: that teens dressing provactively attract unwanted adult male attention and that the male is then accused of child sexual abuse.
        I have a friend who whenever the subject of child sexual abuse comes up, says, “But 15 year old girls didn’t look like that when I was 15. I can see how a guy could think a 15 year old was 21. It’s not fair.” And I always respond with “That is not what we are talking about.”
        It is not hard to see where he is coming from. In today’s sexualized culture, teen age girls look far older then did my counterparts at that age. And while it is advisable for parents to have conversations with their daughters that point out the hazards of dressing provocatively and why wearing those types of clothes are not a good idea, being mistaken for a 21 year old is not the most common form of sexual abuse. To blame the girls for dressing older doesn’t make anyone safe and it doesn’t recognize the scope of the problem.
        Child sexual abuse is committed by adults who use children for their own sexual gratification —whether or not those children are dressed provocatively. Victims range in age from infants to 18 years and are both male and female. (It stops at 18 only because 18 year olds are now legal adults. But even 18+ year olds are used by older adults for their own gratification.)
        We may think of the offender as the “creepy guy” we keep away from our children, but more often they are upstanding members of our communities; people we know, respect and trust. Recent studies suggest sexual offenders are known and trusted friends are responsible for 60% of the offenses. Family members are responsible for 29% and strangers commit 11% of abuse. One in ten males and one in four females are sexually abused before they become adults according to some estimates accounting for more than 40 million survivors of child sexual abuse. Child sexual abuse can happen to anyone, anywhere.
       Those are the facts of child sexual abuse. Caring, responsible adults can protect children from offenders no matter who they are by understanding the nature of child sexual abuse; learning the warning signs; and taking the necessary steps to prevent it. If you have not already attended a Protecting God’s Children (VIRTUS) awareness session I invite you to do so now and learn how you can protect the children in your lives.


  The Other Six Days
by Jane Knuth

You Never Know Who Might Be Listening

The St. Vincent de Paul Society was founded by college students who were praying like crazy over their Bible study. Their goal was to figure out if Catholics made the world a better place or not.
        After noticing that Jesus seemed to spend inordinate amounts of time with people in misery, it occurred to them that He might have been dropping a clue. They walked out onto the streets of Paris and started fighting poverty in order to glorify God. The Society has been going strong ever since.
        Last year, at our annual retreat, we decided to re-apply ourselves to prayer.
        Some of us began to pray together every morning before we opened the store. Others stopped at noon, took the phone off the hook, invited all the customers to gather round, and sent petitions heavenward. And the most disorganized among us clasped hands before leaving at the end of the day. Better late than never.
        We were talking to God, but it turned out He wasn’t the only one listening.
        One day a customer was browsing for a long time among the knick-knacks when she stopped, and asked our cashier, “Aren’t you people going to pray today?”
        The volunteer gathered the rest of the crew and they prayed with the customer. The lady’s cat had died that day, and feeling upset, she came to St. Vincent de Paul because she knew that we would pray with her.
        Another day, a regular customer came into the store, and announced that she had the day off of work.
        “You’re spending your free day at St. Vinnies?” I asked in surprise.
        She said, “This is the anniversary of my son’s death so my boss gave me the day off. I don’t belong to a church, but this seemed like the next best place to come.” We prayed with her, too.
        Another customer told us that she comes every week because the store is a place where she feels peace and kindness. She is struggling with health problems and she takes comfort in praying with us. When we prayed with her that day, she never mentioned her own needs during the petitions. She prayed for us and our work, instead.
        Do Catholics make the world a better place? Not necessarily. But praying Catholics—that’s a real opportunity.


Living the Liturgy
By Fr. Robert Johansen
Pastor, St. Stanislaus Parish, Dorr

“Lent and the Contemplation of the Lord”

        We were made for contemplation. That may sound somewhat ethereal and other-worldly, but it is nonetheless true. The pagan philosophers knew this centuries before Christ: Aristotle wrote in the 4th century B.C. that one of the purposes of man’s existence is contemplaion. The great Church fathers and theologians advanced upon this understanding by recognizing that the proper object of contemplation is God. St. Thomas Aquinas taught that our complete happiness can only be found in the contemplation of God.
        Now, contemplation isn’t just for saints, philosophers and theologians. We are all, according to our different gifts and circumstances, capable of contemplation. If you have ever looked up into the starry sky at night and tried to fathom the mystery of the heavens, you have engaged in contemplation. If you have ever held a newborn child and wondered at the mystery and gift of life, you have engaged in contemplation. Contemplation will lead our minds and souls to the things of heaven, but it is meant for all us here on earth.
        The liturgy is meant to be an opportunity for contemplation. The great convert and theologian Fr. Max Thurian wrote that “the Eucharistic liturgy is an act of thanksgiving; consecration, a memorial and an offering... which invite the celebrants and faithful to turn towards the altar of the Lord in an attitude of adoration and contemplation.” Pope John Paul II wrote, “Jesus awaits us” in the Eucharist, “the sacrament of love”, and urged us not to “refuse the time to go to meet him in adoration [and] in contemplation full of faith.”
        The age in which we live is not friendly to contemplation. We tend to value action, progress, “getting things done”. We often value enthusiasm over wisdom. We are practical, and contemplation seems very un-practical. To many of us, contemplation seems a little too close to doing nothing. But contemplation isn’t “doing nothing”. It is allowing God to do something to us. And in order for God to reach us, to penetrate our minds and souls, we need to make some space, some room, a quiet place in our lives and hearts, so we can hear and see Him.
        It seems to me that we sometimes allow this preoccupation with action and enthusiasm to obscure or even drive out altogether the contemplative aspect of the liturgy. In our concern for “active participation” (in itself a good thing), we sometimes let a spirit of busyness invade our celebrations. We evaluate the quality of the liturgy by how many people have how many things to “do” in the liturgy. We are tempted to judge how “good” a liturgy is by the decibel level. But active participation must begin in our hearts and souls — without the interior dimension all of the activity in the world will be for naught.
        And so, in this season of Lent, we are given an opportunity to make a quiet place for God by stripping away some things. We are urged to do penance, to fast, to give things up, so as to allow the space those things take up in our minds and hearts to be filled by Christ. The Church’s ancient custom is to make our liturgical celebrations more simple and austere: simpler, quieter music; less decoration in our churches. The object is to make our liturgies more contemplative, to give us more room and quiet in which to see and hear the Lord.
        Pope Benedict XVI, in a message he gave before becoming Pope, wrote that by contemplating beauty we come to contemplate Christ. He quoted the Russian novelist Dostoyevsky, who had written, “The Beautiful will save us”. But, Pope Benedict explained, “people usually forget that Dostoyevsky is referring here to the redeeming beauty of Christ.” To see and know this beauty we must have quiet and peace in our souls. We must, the pope explained, “learn to see Him.” The school for learning to see Christ is the liturgy: so in this season of Lent, let us make time for peace and quiet. Let us make our celebration of the liturgy more austere: let us put aside busyness and be still with God. Let us turn our hearts and minds wholeheartedly to “adoration and contemplation full of faith” of Jesus Christ who awaits us.